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I miss my Mom!

If you have that hole in your heart that you get when you lose the woman that you shared a body with....

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Comment by Avi on July 17, 2018 at 6:49am

Ok thanks Theresa. I sometimes want to try them but skeptical. 

Comment by Theresa on July 17, 2018 at 6:44am

Avi I tried one Lexapro I did the pediatric does of 5mg

Comment by Avi on July 17, 2018 at 6:33am

Theresa, are you trying too many anti depressants?

Comment by Theresa on July 17, 2018 at 6:16am

Ok so my friend had to do the unthinkable, her dog is not suffering anymore.  But it just set off a crying spell with me.

Maybe I need to go to the dr again, for the 10th time.

So he can just look at me and say, do you want to try and anti-depressant.  ugh

Comment by Theresa on July 17, 2018 at 6:14am

Bluebell how are you?

Comment by Virginia G on July 16, 2018 at 8:58pm

Avi,

I hope your Dad is doing well.  That must have been hard on you being in the hospital.  I am also sorry you are having more guilt like me.  It’s a horrible feeling.  Also one that others don’t understand.

Comment by Avi on July 15, 2018 at 11:19am

Hi All, 

Hope every one is doing fine. Last week my father got an infection and was hospitalized so could not follow much here. Now he is better and recovering. 

Virginia, you seem to be totally engrossed in the guilt which I can understand as I feel the same way. Today I saw one community of Gall Bladder Cancer survivor (same disease which my mom had) and I came to know that my mother's cancer was also treatable to some extent and there are people who have successfully got out of this. I was told by my oncologist in India that it was not treatable as it was stage IV. 

This makes me feel devastated as I feel that more research would have helped her. 

Virginia, you mention that you expect forgiveness from God and your mother. I guess they already forgive you, the issue is that we need to forgive ourselves. 

Comment by Virginia G on July 14, 2018 at 10:31pm

My boyfriend finally gave up.  I don’t blame him at all.

And Brett I will tell you I don’t deserve the prayers, pray for my Mom please.

Comment by Virginia G on July 14, 2018 at 10:27pm

So the dr talked to my therapist and he told her the same things he told me.  I had asked her to try to get more answers.  I actually feel worse because I had someone ask some doctors about using ventilators.  The oncologist told us if there is cancer in the lungs someone won’t get off a ventilator.  That is why I didn’t want her on one.  Other doctors say that’s not necessarily true.  Of course, they didn’t see my Moms records and the ICU dr says she wouldn’t have come off it, however I am left wondering again.  I don’t trust doctors.  I don’t know why I didn’t make them do something.   It’s all so so horrible.

Comment by Brett Bowman on July 14, 2018 at 10:32am

Theresa, since talking to you last I have been searching for a natural solution to your issue. There are new supplements since I went through this about a year and a half ago, but my best advice would be to talk to your doctor about trying a new anti-depressant.

 

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