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Comment by Jalysa Reyes on December 10, 2010 at 10:02am

My mothers birthday was in November and I tried my best to get over to her grave to give her flowers, but there was so much school work and then I had work... It seems like a very simple thing to do but for some reason finding time to drive 3 hours to give my mother flowers is one of the most difficult of tasks. But then again I think I'm afraid. My grandmother believes that by making the trip to see my mother that I would be reopening an old wound. But you can't reopen a wound that you never healed from to begin with, right? I miss my mother every single day. And the worst part is that I keep trying to build this support team of people that will understand me and love me just as she did. But it is not working. I use to have a support team in HS, but when I went to college they all went and did their own thing. The absence of my mother has affected my relationships to some degree. I keep trying to find that unconditional love in my dating life but it doesn't seem to work that way... I don't know. It is all so hard to figure out. I wish someone gave me a manuel so I would have had time to prepare for all of this.

Comment by Tina Miller on December 2, 2010 at 11:35am

yesterday was Mama's birthday ,and it was the longest day! without her it also my Dad's birthday , i couldn't be happy for him for missing Mama
and i feel guilty for that , cause Daddy is 70 now and his health is worsening, and i don't have a way to get to him to spend time with him .

Comment by Karon B. Porter on November 16, 2010 at 2:17pm

I am happy that we all are able to express our feeling here... it has been a tough time for all of us...I know my mom (our mothers) are happy with the way we all turned out... Now my concern is all of you.... hope we all are taking care of ourselves. Taking care of myself has been my main priority.... Please let me know if I can assist you as well... we are in this together, I love that there is support out there to help us. Those who are interested in starting to take care of themselves via fitness and health, please visted my beachbody site...I am coach now only to help people not experience what my mom pass from...heart disease.. www.teambeachbody.com/karonbporter

Comment by DINESE DAM on November 15, 2010 at 4:00pm

I'm so sorry for your loss. I KNOW EXACTLY HOW YOU ARE FEELING. In March of 2006, I lost my Dad and both my grandparents. They were like a week apart. Then in March of this year ( 2010 ) I lost my best friend. A week later I loss my mother. Then in July of this year, I lost my closest sister, who I took care of for 4 years. As you can see, I've been socked in the stomach. On Thanksgiving, my family and I are gonna celebrate it ( Thanksgiving ) in my parents house, for one last time,. The way I have been trying to get through grieving process, is going to grief support groups. To be around people who are going through the same thing, is such a help. Let your baby, a gift from God, help you too. Put all your time into him. God blessed you with a child for a reason. I also do scrap books or memorial books of the people I've lost in my life. Do some journaling. That can be your best friend because in that you can say everything you feel. There's no reason to hold back with that.
Try to have a nice Thanksgiving. Make it special for your father. Be there for him. Make sure he doesn't need something. Let his grandson help him too. Plan outings with him. Take him to a support group with you.
Hope it all works out for you. Give it a try. Have a blessed Thanksgiving and Christmas. Your more than welcome to send me mail to my email address which is Dinesedam@yahoo.com hope to hear from you soon.

Comment by Christine Seed on November 15, 2010 at 2:39pm

I just lost my mom two weeks ago to pancreatic cancer. She only lived for 6 weeks after her diagnosis. The whole thing happened so quickly that I think I am still in a state of shock. I feel so intensely sad and I already miss her so much. My dad is a mess and I don't know how to support him because I feel like I need support myself. I also have a 5 month old baby, so my time and attention needs to be devoted to him - but I'm so sad that I can't seem to pull it together and be a good mom right now. Thank God for my supportive husband, I would be lost without him. When will I feel better?

Comment by Tina Miller on November 14, 2010 at 5:16pm

I do have a big hole in my heart I feel like someone ripped my heart out of my chest.Karen got it right we did share a body once and hearts evrryday form the time i was conceived, I just feel so lost without her .she was Mama,my best friend ,my first friend whom i shared everything with and she did as well.i could talk to her about anything and i don't have this with another human , now i must take it all to God, but like the little girl to her mama whom kept searching for the monster her daughter insisted was under her bed i know that God is with me ,But sometimes we need somebody with some skin. sometimes i can close my eyes and feel her cheek on mine when i would hug her ,,my lips on her cheeks and hands ,and smell her she always smelled so good ! yeah a Big Hole !! thnk you all for listening and commenting you don;t know how much you all help me day to day hugs !!

Comment by steacy del valle on November 11, 2010 at 3:05pm

and you know whats the worst part it was the friday after my first mothers day and 11 days before my 21 birthday and she was cremated the day of my birthday

Comment by steacy del valle on November 11, 2010 at 7:55am

helloive never done this but here goes. i miss my mom so much she recently died going on 6 months ago and the pain only seems to get stonger. i have a son he is 1 and its now that i understand the love of a parent and it just make the pain of losing her even greater. she use to always tell me she wouldnt be around for ever but i didnt believer even though u know everyone dies you just dont believe it will haven to the person thats the closes to you. she was murdered by her ex she was shot 4 times and he shot himself. i still have so much emotions inside i just dont even know which emotion is the strongest. sadnesss, hopeless, vanerable, angry, or just depressed.

Comment by Tina Miller on November 7, 2010 at 1:48pm

my mom was killled on 7th of oct 2010 she was crossing the the road in her motrized chair and was hit by an 33yr old woman who till now just says she didnt see mo and the officers didnt charge the girl , they said cause mom crossed 75 feet away from the cross walk , but i have proof she couldnt cross there for the medium in the cross walk her chair couldnt get over ,mom was hit and then ran over her pelvic area and then knocked or drug for 80 feet there were no brakes applied no skid marks even the officers said that . there isnt any closer till i know what happened that day , why this girl didnt see or try to stop . mom the bottom of moms chair is what finlly stopped her. i won't have any closer till i know what happened that day are people are held accountable is that wrong?

Comment by Karon B. Porter on October 26, 2010 at 4:02pm

Hello group, I am totally new to this...My story ....I am 33 years of age from The Bronx. I have that average story with weight loss that everyone seems to have. However, what makes mines a little different from the rest is when I lost my mother at age 29. During this time, it was really hard for my family and me to understand the reason or reasons why she was chosen. She left this Earth at age 48 (That is a very young age) of a silent killer called heart disease. Something I knew could have prevented this from happening was being active. From that moment it was more of life change decision for me.

I don't ever want anyone to ever go through what I did that day... I am willing to help anyone that wants to talk or just to vent... I know this may sound like spam, but I want to let everyone know what has help me cope with my loss.... Maybe it will help you as well...I am beach body coach, the creators of in home fitness programs like P90x, Insanity, and turboFire, just to mention a few. Taking care of myself has been my main priority.... Please let me know if I can assist you as well... we are in this together, I love that there is support out there to help us.

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