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Comment by Judith Good on June 2, 2011 at 6:58am

I lost my Mom this past January at the age of 95.  She lived a wonderful life but I wanted her with me longer of course.  I moved here 4 years ago after a divorce to be closer to her and spend more time with her and we did just that.  I have been at such a total loss without her in my life.  It's a struggle to get up and face the days.  Every elderly woman I see when I'm out brings tears to my eyes as a reminder of my Mom.  My Mom was such a positive outgoing person I know this is not the way she would want me to be but I'm having such a hard time shaking it.  I came here in the hopes that thru others I would gather the strength and comfort needed to get thru these days and guidance to move on.  Hoping also that in the same way I could help others as they go thru their grieving process.  I don't know how to work the site just yet but hopefully that will come.  Thank you all for your support.

Comment by steacy del valle on May 25, 2011 at 6:04pm

today is my b-day and i miss my mom

Comment by steacy del valle on May 21, 2011 at 4:42pm

my mom died may 14 2010 she was shot by her ex 4x and he shot himself i feel so lost without her its like ever since she passed well better yet taken life feel like it hasnt inproved in the last year it just feels like problems on top of problems keep pialing up and i dont know what to do ionly had my mom growing up so she was the only one that was always there for me

Comment by sharon on May 19, 2011 at 8:53pm

My heart goes out to all of you guys who lost your love ones.

let me express how i feel i lost my mom 1 year ago and she was healthy as can be and one night she passed away on nov 2nd 2010 and we were all shocked as the doctors come in told us she was to going to make it into the morning next morning. so we were lost and after she passed and started cleaned out the apt. the relity hit home she was gone her car left and everything else and it reaally hit home after that. its not easy when you loose a love one or even on hoildays it was hard for me still is becuasse she has not been gone that long but in my greif share told us to write down and keep track of how we felt and express the feelings in the next class and i did and it took me over 1 year to go though her pics and make a scrap book is a great idea. and i did that and it will heal you its all about memberies . there is not a day that i dont think of my parents everyday . i miss them dearly and things.. god bless you all and prayers are with you all..
Sharon

Comment by Cindy Trepanier on May 19, 2011 at 9:55am

Thank you Denise.  I contacted the local hospice to see when their bereavement group meets.  I am hoping that helps.  I grew up in a funeral home so I keep thinking that I should be able to handle this better than I am.  I keep telling myself what I am feeling is normal, but it is still so hard for me to accept. 

Comment by Denise Murphy on May 18, 2011 at 7:27pm

Hi Cindy,

I am so sorry for your loss, my story is similar I lost my dad in April of 2002 he was diagnosed with terminal cancer, and then I lost my mom in March of 2005.  I know exactly what you mean about having your mom to lean on when you lost your dad.  My mom was my best friend, I supported her when she was diagnosed in May 2004.  I watched her die slowly, even though she was sick her death was so unexpected.  She went for treatment than decided in January of 2005 she did not want anymore, we thought she had about 6-9 months to live.  I felt so alone and devastated, I loved my dad and missed him but my mom was different.  I realized my relationship with her was a more emotional relationship, we shared everything and anything with each other.  What help me was journaling about my feelings and doing things that memorialized her.  I made some scrapebook pages and I also set up a memorial on line that to this day I visit often.  Another thing that help was I went to a bereavement group that ran for 6 weeks once a week.  That really helped alot.  Try to remember your mom would want you to go on and have a good life.  Keep coming here this is a great place to talk, another great resource is going to the library and look for books dealing with your loss.  I hope this helps you a little and I will keep you in my prayers

God Bless

Denise

Comment by Cindy Trepanier on May 18, 2011 at 2:42pm

My mother died on May 7th 2011, three years to the day my father passed.  He had been diagnosed with terminal cancer and we had time to prepare so I handled things differently.  Add to it I had my mom to lean on and talk to.  Now I am lost.  I want to scream and yell but all I can do is cry. 

 

My mother became my best friend and I miss her so much.  I feel so alone and just don't know how to handle this. 

Comment by Diane on May 15, 2011 at 2:13pm

My mom passed from a stroke in 2008, but it was so tragic, she had the severe stroke in 2002, and was in  a vegetated state in the nursing home until she passed 2/1/2008.

I miss her so, we lived 500 hundrend miles apart, but, we spoke every week or more, she was 74 when she passed. Watching her just lie there for almost six years and than pass was more hurtful than words can say! My heart goes out to all of you!!!

Comment by steacy del valle on May 14, 2011 at 9:52am

todaymakes a year since my mom died it sucks. i try to not think of it but it just feels like im reliving that day over and over in my head. on mothers day was sucky too it was the first mothers day with out her and i kept thinking of all the stuff i would do for that day and i would just cry. i would always start the day with breakfast in bead and then did anything she wanted and buy her stuff. i really missed it it felt like someone literally punched me in my heart now my birthday is comming up and it was the same day she got creamated and i dont enjoy my b-day anymore its hard to think that the same day she gave birth to me would be the sameday he body was turned into powder 20 years later

Comment by Karon B. Porter on May 13, 2011 at 3:19pm

This pass mother's day was really hard for me being that I am in a different place of my life.... I asked my girlfriend to marry me almost a month ago.  I realized my mother will no be here with me in the physical.  I know my mom is with every day.  I really hope you all are taking care of yourself.  I would like to extend my services to you all... I am beachbody coach.  I would like to shre with you all "Please take care of yourselves, that is what your mother's would want."  Please read below...

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