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Comment by Cindi B on January 23, 2012 at 12:38pm

Nicole, I sometimes feel the same way. My Dad died when I was a baby and my Mom passed in June 2011. I feel so disconnected sometimes. Especially when I retell a story my Mom use to tell, and I can't remember all the details she told with it, and I realize that I can't call her and ask her. I feel blessed that I still have my maternal Grandmother here with me who has always acted like a second mother to me. It's not the same bond I had with my own mother, but it's close. 

Wishing comfort for us all.

Comment by Nicole on January 23, 2012 at 3:55am

What I am missing the most is that unconditional love a parent has for a child.  There is no other love like that.  I miss my mom and dad so much.  And nobody understands how I feel.  I am an orphan, at 26.  I have no anchor and must go through life alone :(

Comment by Lisa Gladieux on January 22, 2012 at 2:08pm

Rachel, I believe your mother IS watching you! I know mine is, which is why I chose to no longer grieve...it won't change the outcome. I told her her while she was in the dying process that I would be ok. I need to show her she raised a strong daughter who is going to take care of her precious grandchild! I miss my mom everyday, all day. Lisa

Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on January 22, 2012 at 12:49pm

im having more than a hard time....it was thought i had a heart attack the other night, turned out not to be the case, but im in a mental state thats not healthy, probably by medication....yesterday i was fine....im worried, and trying to make it thru with god's help and the love of you people....please pray for me....i need  alot of that....i miss my mom too and wish she was here but this would break her heart....so im actually glad that she cant see this....i hope things improve....i really do....there has to be some hope and light at the end of the tunnel

Comment by Kevin Velez on January 17, 2012 at 7:06pm

Elaine, I'm positive I don't have to tell you this but, crying is so healing and such a release that I make myself cry.  Not because I'm nuts or because I enjoy it but because I find it sooooo healing to my soul and so cleansing.  I'm fortunate to have an office with a door to close but if I didn't I'd find a spot just for me and my feelings.  

Comment by Kevin Velez on January 17, 2012 at 7:03pm

I am grateful for all of you especially for sharing your grief.  Life is hard and it doesn't get easier but a social network such as this is so empowering and moving that I have found it easier to accept the passing of my mom, my best friend.  I pray this community lives on for others.  I am by no means
"healed," but this community gets a big "wow" from me.  I am blessed to have been led to this group. Peace to us all.  Kevin.

Comment by mercy on January 17, 2012 at 1:38pm

Elaine, am so sorry that we have to live with this kind of pain. Its so hard dear, as I said, we are all here for you. I hate life as it is now but I have a daughter to live for. Hugs to you my friend.

Comment by Bob Naples on January 14, 2012 at 12:37pm

You're absolutely right.Lisa.just because they went to Heaven before us does not mean that they forget us.I see signs around my apartment 2-3 times a week.Keep an open mind,pay attention,anything that strikes you as peculiar,it could be your mom trying to get your attention!Hugs!

Comment by Lisa Gladieux on January 14, 2012 at 8:07am

Melissa, like you, I don't want to die unless the good Lord feels it's my time. I miss my mom everyday & all day, but I don't mourn for her. I find it silly to mourn for someone who is in Heaven! I finally started going through my mom's belongings last night & packing things up & I was able to do this without crying or feeling depressed. It's just something that needs to be done. All her clothes, shoes & anything else I find is going to be donated to Amvets on Wed. She always gave to them, so this is my way of honoring her. To keep myself positive & not sink into a state of extreme sadness, I keep myself away from "energy vampires". I just don't have the time or energy to invest into their drama & it keeps me leveled. Not always easy to do as I work with tons of women. We ALL miss our moms terribly, but try to live your life the way your amazing mom would have intended. I firmly believe that our mother's are watching over us!!! Hugs to all, Lisa

Comment by Melissa Broome on January 14, 2012 at 3:52am

I don't want to die! nor have I ever. I wish my mom was still with me! With all my heart but I do not wish to die. I have panic and Anxiety b4 my mother passed for yrs but it used to be really bad but it's pretty mild unless I'm stressed. I had the worse panic attack this morning that I have ever had and after I just cried. Because it made it that much clearer my mom was gone. But my husband held me while I cried, I needed that. I try with all my might to hide my feelings. My hubby mourns for my mother too. But sometimes I feel like I will explode from holding back the tears. I miss her so much :( I have to watch what I say around others too. I'm not as afraid of death like I once was. it's a part of life. But I hope to live many more yrs my children need me and I need them. And my husband. My tears mostly are tears of missing her now. but it's been 9 months. I look for signs daily from her and have not had any since the earring. 

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