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Comment by dream moon JO B on November 16, 2012 at 3:50pm

had my 1st bday with out my dad ths weak it did not fealthe same withh out my dad not bean ther i felst sad tht he woz not ther to enjuy it tryed to put on a brave fase but all i wanted to do is break don and cry coz we all miss him so mush i wishit evry 1 we lost wood come back but i no thts not going to happen i dont care abot luxery stuf or money i wood choze our loved 1s evry time i wood i no i saed to some 1 but all i got branded woz evil and selfish by a person who only cares abot moneyy and luxerys 

Comment by Debra A. Whitemaine on November 13, 2012 at 4:38pm

Hi jb,

I remember going to the drive-in when we were little.  No movie theaters for Dad.  I'm sure your Dad is doing just fine up there.  I hear it is a wonderful, peaceful place.  My Dad also loved to joke around and have fun.  In my adult life, I figured out that Dad should us love by joking/kidding around with us.  That was his way.  Your Dad sounds like he really enjoyed life.  And wanted to share his happiness.

Dad got us into horses when we were young and that lasted a long time for us.  Then we got the iron horse - motorcycles.  Spent a lot of time riding with Dad.  And he was so pround when my husband and I rode along with him.

Comment by dream moon JO B on November 13, 2012 at 3:57pm

wen i woz a kid debra my dad liket takiing me to the simima to sea good movie i thnk he used to go him self coz he loved som of the kids movies he did wen back to the futcher 2 come out we saw the 1st 1 thn wen the 2nd 1 com out he saed cars will fly 1 day if thy dont fly by 2015 it will happen 1 day he used 2 say he used 2 laff at biff in the 3 films crashing in to horse mnera it woz so funny it woz but he loved westens the most he did and he liket beting on horses wen he cud not get out he wud send me to the beting shop to put his horses on but he loved life he used to say im not going in side thm gates till u all come i hope ther is a few shops out side hevens gate or a bar and a restront so he can eat or drink he woz all ways playing jokes on us he took after his dad for doing tht my grandad who i never met my dad used to say lifes to short for people misribal if he saw sum 1 misbril he wud say smile before yore fase cracks or if he woz in the hospitle waiting area and people wer siting ther misribil he wud say its like a morg in hear thr is mor life in the morg chear upand evry 1 wud burst out lafing hope im not ofending any 1

Comment by Debra A. Whitemaine on November 13, 2012 at 9:36am

No problem, with my name spelling.  Yes, so many things bring memories.  My husband and I went to a mudd bog on saturday and we thought of my Dad a lot that day.  2 yrs ago we had taken him with us to the event.  Yesterday I went to see my Dad and I feel like I did when he passed.  I could barely talk to him.  I just want another hug from him.  My heart is hurting again, still.  Here is the poem I wrote for Dad from us children:

Dad we will miss you and already do.

But all of our memories will help get us thru.

As our angel from above you will shower us with love.

To help wash away the sorrow for a better tomorrow.

Comment by dream moon JO B on November 12, 2012 at 4:08pm

sory abot tht debra a typing era on my part did not mean to get yoe name wong 

Comment by dream moon JO B on November 12, 2012 at 3:32pm

i hear a lot of songs dera and u start thnk abot yore dad or other loved 1s we lost but balled and opra songs my dad loved or any thng good on the radio or sport on the radio 

Comment by Debra A. Whitemaine on November 11, 2012 at 6:39pm

Hi jb,

Thanks for the reply.  I'm glad you feel the photo is ok.  Yes, songs can bring back a lot of memories or just the words can make me miss my Dad more.  My Dad had an 8 track called Forty Funky Hits and it had some crazy songs on it.  My Dad really enjoyed listening to it.  I might try to find the cd so I can play it in the car.

 

My thoughts are with you as your Dad's birthday draws near.

Comment by dream moon JO B on November 8, 2012 at 3:36pm

yore foto is ok debra yore dad wud luv it i woz lisning to a song to day the police singng evry breth u take and thnking of my dad my dad loved balled songs he liket a lot of elten john songs he liket this singer as well joe mckeldery coz he sings balled songs and opra songs i no my dad cud not sing but sung som strange and sily songs tht wud mak u laff i no im not lookeking foward to nxt moth coz it wud of bean my dads bday on boxing day he wud of bean 77 ths yer he all wayz lovd xmas and boxing day so he cud hav a few hous out before he wud hav to go on th nebulizers or oxgin mashn i no som tims me mum dad and the rest of th family sum tims had bad hang overs on 27th dec but it woz worth it i no drink is bad for u but for bdays its ok i thnk

Comment by Debra A. Whitemaine on November 8, 2012 at 7:24am

I hope this photo is appropriate to post.  It was our way of honoring Dad and is so fitting for him.  I bet this made him smile.  It has a solar powered headlight too.  Love you Dad and miss you so much!

Comment by Debra A. Whitemaine on November 8, 2012 at 7:20am

This is Dad on the MDA Ride for Life - May 2012.  Dad absolutely loved to do this ride and had been a 20 year participant.  His name was Kermit so his nickname was Frog.  My husband and I plan to buy his motorcycle and keep the vanity license plate (FROGK) on it.

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