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Comment by Denise Frappollo on March 22, 2013 at 12:06pm

Storyas Fawnfeather

My family is a lot like yours.  We are very close knit, my parent's house is only 10 minutes away from mine.  I called everyday, I would check on both of them.  I consider myself lucky as my husband lost his mother before we met and he understood my pain.  I still burst into tears at times and it is 10 months.  Especially when certain songs play, the morning after my father passed I was driving and passed by the hospice where Dad passed away. As I drove by the song "Have I Told You That I Love You" started to play.  I still cry when I hear that song, it is like part of my heart is being ripped out of me.  My Dad was my hero, my protector and my cheerleader.  Like you I had time to talk to Dad, I told him how much I loved him, how grateful I was to have him as a father.  I even apologized for all the times I was difficult and stubborn with him.  Nothing prepared me for the deep loss, there are times I still expect him to be in the parlor sitting and waiting for me.  The loss I still feel, I try to be there for my mother but its hard to be in the home where he was.  The holiday season was very difficult and those I worked with did not understand my non interest. In sharp contrast my husband lost his father six months after mine passed.  He was very strong, but his father lived 4 hours away and we had only visited him a few times.  My husband called him often but the closeness you and I enjoy with our families he did not have.  His family loves each other but there is some emotional and physical distance.

Comment by Storyas Fawnfeather on March 21, 2013 at 9:35pm

I was reading the posts where people said to just get over it that it is easy.  How horrible.  But, I know how you feel.  My own husband said it to me two days after my dad died, and my husband isn't a bad guy or an abusive husband or anything like that.  He's a nice guy who just doesn't get it partly cuz he hasn't lost his parents yet and partly cuz he doesn't have the type of relationships I have.  He almost never calls his parents and me and my folks were together almost daily and were bonded so deep that I can't believe even death could break that bond.  But, two days after my dad's funeral I was sitting on the couch and just started crying out of no place, and my husband said to me that I couldn't use my dad's death as an excuse forever.  What?  It was two days after his funeral!!!!!  Now, it has been over a year, and I still hurt and miss him every day.  Same for my Mom who died before my dad, and I still miss her that much.  I can't even begin to understand why people would say something like that.  It just seems so hateful.  I hope I never said anything like that to anyone before I lost someone I loved enough to understand.

Comment by dream moon JO B on March 21, 2013 at 4:17pm

saw somthng on tv today brot it all bac li the day i lost my dad it still hurts so mush now its bean a yr 

i got told it woz easy to get death but i dnt thk it is easy its so hrd

it seasm to get hrder as get older an al the deaths i had in jan did not help

whot mad it worse woz my cuzen in law steve died on the sam sh@t ward my dad died on an surgate uncle died on

Comment by Denise Frappollo on March 21, 2013 at 9:16am

Monique

I know what your saying, yesterday was the 10 month anniversary, sometimes it feels like it was just yesterday Dad passed.  I miss him so much it hurts. 

Comment by dream moon JO B on March 18, 2013 at 5:30pm

iv bean told the sam thng monique i got told it woz easy get ovr it

but i cant me and my daddy had a spesel bond we wear so close my mum says i woz sush a daddys girl i woz my mum woz the sam she woz a daddys girl 2 wi her dad but i nver met him my mum nevr got ovr lzing her parents but i nevr ask her coz i dont whont to upset her

her mother got burnt and died in a fire so u never ask her abot it woz before i woz born all i no it woz bad whot i v bean told all i no my mum looket after her dad for3 or 4 yrs aftr it hapend wen she strt dating my dad he helpt loket aftr him even wen thy got marie in 1973 april he help lookt after him till he died in 1973 mat a month aftr thy got marie the story i got told a lot of tims but i nev push it or ask mum in case i upset her 

the 1s wh say get over thy ethr hav no fealings or th hav nver lost any 1 yet

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Comment by marie on March 18, 2013 at 2:33am

It's been 18 months now. Some days I am fine and some days I still struggle. I take it day by day and am so so thankful I had him.

Comment by Stephanie Wilson on March 18, 2013 at 1:07am

I miss my dad so much to. I have had a rough six months I just miss you so much dad. I love you.

Comment by Storyas Fawnfeather on March 13, 2013 at 9:59pm

I miss my dad.  That is all I want to say tonight - I miss you, Daddy!  I hope you are happy and safe and at peace where you are and that I see you again one day.  I love you.

Comment by Chandra G Brewer on March 12, 2013 at 11:58pm

I just lost my daddy three months ago almost four. He passed away on Dec 3rd,2012.

Comment by sharon abraham on March 11, 2013 at 5:11pm

its coming up to the first yr since my dad died.. im lost.. i just want my dad to tell me its going to be ok .. my daughter and my dad died in the same month.. April.. i dont know how to deal with it so i just keep pushing it down.. i kno its not good.. im so tired of feeling that i need to be strong for my kids and grand daughter.. its so sad. i just try to keep busy .. wot else is there??

 

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