Hello, Umm my friend was murdered only 7 weeks ago. Seems like forever ago but at the same time just like yesterday. We know who done it, the cops know who done it but they are putting these case together. They want to make sure that all their T's are crossed and all their I's are dotted. I understand this and we all know that the risk for everyone else saftey is almost none. This person got what they wanted, it was personal. The only ones who might still be at risk is her family. Her parents have the kids, they still belong to the state but child services are saying that the best place right now is with the maternal grandparents. The killer is trying to see the kids, lies are being told on his end to make everything seem better then what it is. The killer is saying that they want her ashes because of a baby she lost at 12ish weeks and they cremated the baby. That is why the killer wants her ashes is to put the two of them together. There is NO BABY ASHES! The killer is also stating a bunch of other lies that just are not true.  The killer has not been charged for her murder yet, to him he is thinking that he has gotten away with this. The killers family has money and they have gotten the killer a lawyer for the criminal charges that she and the Police have charged the killer with before her death. The killer has a family lawyer for all the child stuff, and the killer has a Civil Lawyer because the killer is suing her family as they went into the house to get stuff for the children after the Police said that her family could.  There has been three different court dates set for the killer to face the charges before her death but the lawyer keeps pushing it back. The court date to set who has full custody of the kids has also been pushed back. I am getting very sick and tired of all these court dates being pushed back over and over again. I want the killer in JAIL, it won't be for a long time but at lest they will be locked away so the Police and continue to work on their case against the killer. It will buy them more time to get this right. I know that things will get done when they are ment to be done. we all just need to sit back and wait. The problem with that is, every time something new is tossed our way from the Killer messing with all of us, it is like she has just died all over again. All the healing that we have done in the 7 weeks have just restarted EVERY TIME the killer pulls some sort of shit. So that in a nut shell is what is going on. This is all new and different to me, I have never lost anyone this way. It feels like we are all stuck in a hole and we keep trying to get out, but when we are close to the top we fall back down onto the dark, cold, sticky dirty ground only to start the climb all over again. One day we all will reach to top. One day we will get out of the hole in the ground.

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