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Brittainy Noel Heise

This group was made in honor of Brittainy Noel Heise for her family and friends. We love you and miss you so very much.

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Brittainy Noel Heise

Brittainy Noel Heise was born on December 21, 1990 in Columbus, Ohio at Ohio State University.
She has an older sister Havala Nicole Heise, and a younger brother Harold William Heise II, a mother and step-father, Gyla and Bobby Darden Jr., a father Dwight William Heise, grandfather and grandmother, Dave and Joyce Jordan, grandmother Julia Darden, and many aunts and uncles. She lived in Goldsboro, NC at the time of her illness, and died at UNC University Hospital in Chapel Hill on July 23, 2010. I thank all the wonderful doctors and nurses that spent everyday with her for her final month here on earth. They were all very loving and did everything possible to save her. You are all very special people, there are not words enough that could express my thanks and appreciation for the hard work and dedication they had to saving my daughter.
Brittainy loved to fish, loved animals and children and aspired to be a pediatric nurse. She was going to join job corps, to get the schooling she needed to accomplish this goal.
We are all so proud of you Brittainy, you fought so hard and bravely for your life.
I know that you are one of God's very special angels, because you were so very special to many people. We love and miss you so very much!!!!

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Welcome,   Friends, and family.  Please use this group to share memories, feelings, or anything that you would like.  I will keep everyone updated on the pending lawsuit and any activities or events…Continue

Started by Gyla Lynn Darden Nov 12, 2010.

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Comment by Gyla Lynn Darden on January 19, 2011 at 3:27pm

I apologize to all that I haven't been on here in a while, but the holidays were really rough this year and I am finally starting to feel like I am a little human again. 

I want to update everyone on what is going on with the lawsuit.  I talked to the legal aid on Monday and she told me that she finally went through all of the records (which I am sure was a task since there were over 5000 pages of procedures that were done to Brittainy).  She has sent them to their physicians to go through and look at.  They will then be getting experts in the field to start going ahead with the legal proceedings. 

 

Last week Hava and I went to put a beautiful flower arrangement on her grave that Hava bought and said that Brittainy would love it.  It is a beautiful arrangement. 

 

Also, I am asking for everyone's help with her funeral expenses.  The donations have stopped coming in.  Even if you can only send $5 for the expenses it would be deeply appreciated. 

 

I will continue to keep everyone posted on the lawsuit.  I love you all.  Gyla

Comment by Gyla Lynn Darden on January 2, 2011 at 2:57am

I'm not a perfect person

There's many things I wish I didn't do

But I continue learning

I never meant to do those things to you

And so I have to say before I go

That I just want you to know

 

I've found a reason for me

To change who I used to be

A reason to start over new

And the reason is you

 

I'm sorry that I hurt you

It's something I must live with everyday

And all the pain I put you through

I wish that I could take it all away

And be the one who catches all your tears

That's why I need you to hear

 

I've found a reason for me

To change who I used to be

A reason to start over new

And the reason is you                                          

 

I'm not a perfect person

I never meant to do those things to you

And so I have to say before I go

That I want you to know

 

I've found a reason for me

To change who I used to be

A reason to start over new

And the reason is you

 

I've found a to show

A side of me you didn't know

A reason for all that I do

And the reason is you

                                          -Hoobastank  "The Reason"

Comment by Gyla Lynn Darden on January 1, 2011 at 6:46pm

They say memories are golden

well maybe that is true.

I never wanted memories,

I only wanted you.

 

A million times I needed you,

a million times I cried.

If love alone could have saved you

you never would have died.

 

In life I love you dearly,

in death I love you still.

In my heart I hold a place

no one could ever fill.

 

If tears could build a stairway

and heartache make a lane,

I'd walk the path to heaven

and bring you back again.

 

Our family chain is broken,

and nothing seems the same,

But God call us one by one,

the chain will link again.

                                    -Author Unknown

Comment by Gyla Lynn Darden on January 1, 2011 at 6:41pm

Brittainy,

baby girl I am sorry that I haven't been on here, but it has been so hard for me this year.  I think of you everyday, and cry about you all the time. 

I just wanted to say Happy Birthday, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.  I love you so very much and miss you even more. 

Comment by Carol J. Heise on December 29, 2010 at 5:48pm
merry christmas brittainy and a happy new year this year will be hard for all of us without you. ; (
Comment by Guy David Jordan on November 10, 2010 at 9:00pm
She was a special granddaughter and I think of her everyday and miss her everyday.
 

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