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Hi, Alyson
I lost my husband on that April 28th, too. It will too, be 6 months for me toomorow. I guess, all that I can say is that the "what if's" just consume our minds so much and unfortunately we no longer have control of those events, since they are in the "past". And we cant change the past or combine past with present. It hurts so much in trying to make it day by day. If he was that kind of person to have forgotten, then you should take those positive thoughts and hold on to those, as hard as it might sound. I am pretty sure, if you would just known what was going to happen, you would have been there, but how nice would that be, for all of us to know what is ahead of us!
Take Care, and feel free to write to me.
Amanda
im sorry for your loss as well. i guess all that can be done is to hold on to memories and try to forget all the rough times. and yes, it would be amazing if we knew ahead of time!
thank you. and you can write to me anytime as well.
So sorry for your loss Alyson. Same thing happened to me. My ex passed away on Aug 24, few days before my birthday. She had a stroke and never recovered from it. I've known her since I was 17. It's been two months but still feels like yesterday. I have been getting signs from her and feel her presence everyday which brings me comfort. I've learned the more you suppress your feelings, the more it will hurt later so allow yourself to grieve, cry.. It's a process we all must go through... Nothing else can heal the pain but time... Take care of yourself.
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