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Dear, Crystal,
Thank you for sharing your news. I understand how hard it was, so you are a very brave woman.
I am on your side and don't listen to anything that somebody says.
I read the story of your life and I can tell how strong you are. I am very sorry that it happened to Ben and I am sure that he not only suffered for himself, he also suffered for hurting you, for taking life from you. I am 100% sure it was his plan to send you somebody who can bring you back to life.
I am so happy for you. I hope this man is a great person also and he will not hurt you in future.
I know you feel guilt that is why you came here. Well, don't! You ate this pain enough! For so many years! Sending my love and hugs to you. Keep going!
Crystal,
You have to do what you feel is right for you, especially if you feel that your Ben would be ok with it or even was involved in orchestrating it. Now, your path would not be right for me -- my husband died nearly five years ago, and I never have and never will have any sort of relationship with anyone else, and I don't have even the slightest inclination to do so. For me, my husband is the only one I will ever love and the only one I ever have or ever will make love with, but that's my path, and that doesn't mean that your path is the same. Each of us has to determine for her/himself the best way to proceed, or to not proceed.
So -- no, I have not done the same thing or anything close, or anything at all. However, that doesn't mean that you shouldn't. I would just caution you that your feelings are probably all still in flux, as three months is very soon (though somewhat mitigated by the fact that you did start grieving quite a long while before he actually died), and it's important to make sure that this guy is actually a good guy, as well as making sure that you don't smother him (only you and he can really determine the way your relationship should be, the way you both want it to be). Just use caution, is all I'm saying.
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