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I truly understand My mother died Aug 28, 2013. She lost her home in hurricane
Sandy. Than Jan 30th she took a massive stroke, she could not walk or talk or eat
we had to put a feeding tube in her. She could not even point to a picture to tell
me anything. She was a wonderful mother. I went to the hospital every day and
the rehab center. Yes it was a total disgrace. When someone can not talk or walk
They need you to be there voice and stand up for them. She also, cried every day.
When her 3 months was up at rehab I took her home. At The end of April. She
could not walk, talk or eat. She was on a feeding tube. I had to learn to give her
meds through the tube and feed her around the clock. We could not even get
help from the area of aging because she was over by $20.00 and she was out
of network for her insurance. It was so hard to see my mother suffer and even
walk out of the room and leave her for a second. My two sons and wonderful daughter-in-law.
helped me change her and take care of her around the clock. She got so sick we
would cry. I could never go into a deep sleep since Jan. when it happened. Than in
April when I brought her home I never slept. Now since she passed my body does
not relax to sleep. All I think about is how she suffered and how dying was so hard.
And the stages they go through. I never new all this it broke my heart to see her
go through all the stages of death. I also, feel so sad confused about how the
doctors and nurses act. I think the whole system needs to change to care more
about the elderly. I would love to talk with you. This is my first time writing and
talking about it. All I think about is her suffering and I can not focus on anything.
I truly understand. I need to feel she is ok. She also, was a wonderful mother,
grandmother, friend and wife. She truly loved us so much .
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