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Well, here I go again, my fourth year without my husband to celebrate the holdiays together, I just hate them and wish I could just sleep through them, being with family or friends is of no help, it makes it worse to see them so happy. Any suggestions?
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Me too, Linda (I feel alone even when I am with my family).
If it helps you even a little bit to go to Michigan for Christmas, then I think it's good that you do it.
What is a "Tree of Life" event?
Hi Anne,
I have never taken this necklace off my neck since the day he died 5/5/2013, i like your idea of having the bands melted together, Julian and I had our favorite song "Endless Love", he still is every step I take and every breath I take.
I am dreading the holidays and this is just my first holiday season without Kevin--I have huge family--but it was just three of us in our little family--Kevin, me and our daughter Tonya. Then right after it will be my first anniversary of death on 1-7-17. I have told everyone I just want to be alone so I do not have to pretend to be okay. I hope I am gone before it becomes my 4th year.
I love your husband's name--it is unique. Babie J is so darling and I am sure she brings you comfort. I guessed she with the pink color.lol
I know what you mean. Christmas used to be my favorite holiday; now I hate this time of year. Happy couples, happy families....blech, I don't fucking want to see it. I can't stand to listen to Christmas carols, I hate Christmas shopping, I haven't decorated for or celebrated Christmas in 4 years (since my husband died), and I never will again. Same with New Year's Eve, as that is the anniversary of when we "officially" became a couple. So now I just stay in and either stay awake and cry all night or take a sleeping pill and sleep right through it. I wish I could do that for the rest of my life....
Hi Bluebird,
I can't stand to listen to Christmas songs anymore either, I do the same on New Year's Eve, take two pills and go to sleep. I just wish I wouldn't wake up.
Same here, Linda.
Except that I need to live as long as our cat does, to take care of him. But ASAP after that....
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