Like everyone on this site, I have been going through hell since my wife passed away, April 29th, 2015.  The past few weeks it has gotten worse until last night.  It was the middle of the night and, as usual, I was making numerous trips to the bathroom. Then for what amounts to 2 or 3 seconds, I saw directly ahead of me, standing at the bedroom door a vision. She was vivid to my eye and stood stock still. She appeared to be wearing the same type of hospital gown that she passed in. She said nothing and made no motion but faded away as quickly as she appeared.  I have never seen a vision as sharp in detail or one that seemed to fade into the background and then disappear. Her face was obscured. If it was my dear Nancy, I hope she is alright on the other side and will visit again. I was not frightened but I could not see her face clearly. "Nancy" I inquired and that was when she disappeared.  I am curious as if anyone else here has had such an experience. Today I feel a sense of calm I haven't felt in a long time. 

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That's wonderful; you are very lucky.

Yes. My son appeared to my mom...and he did the same, when he knew she could see him, he looked startled and faded from view.

My cousin's son also appeared to his grandfather. My cousin's son passed about 2 years prior to my Uncle (his grandfather). My uncle then passed about 1 month after this appearance.

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